Kardashian-Odom ALMOST husband & wife!!! WTF???

Ok so WTF?!?! This past weekend Khloe Kardashian and sudden boyfriend/husband Lamar Odom had a wedding ceremony BUT reportedly aren't even really married, YET anyway!!!! NOPE, the marriage WILL NOT be made legal until Kardashian signs the prenup being prepared by Odom's attorneys. The terms of the prenup are supposedly still being worked out by both camps....A MESS!!!

DOES ANYONE TAKE MARRIAGE SERIOUSLY ANYMORE?!?!?!?

....SHOES ARE FOREVER!!!!

I LOVE SHOPPING FOR SHOES!!!! WELL, SCRATCH THAT...I LOVE GETTING NEW SHOES!!! BUT SHOPPING FOR SHOES IS A PAIN SOMETIMES. IT'S TOO TIME CONSUMING!!! I LIKE CUTE SHOES THOUGH, SEXY SHOES, GLAMOROUS SHOES, CHEAP OR EXPENSIVE DOESN'T MATTER AS LONG AS THEIR CUTE, MATCH MY ATTIRE AND SCREAM FEMININITY!!!!!

SO IMMA LEAVE THE SHOPPING UP TO SOMEONE ELSE....I HAVE OFFICIALLY

SIGNED UP FOR KIM KARDASHIAN'S "SHOE DAZZLE" & LET'S HOPE THIS DOLL CAN BACK UP WHAT SHE SAYS!!!

I LOVE KIM'S TASTS, SHE ALWAYS LOOKS FAB AND DECIDED THAT I'D TAKE ADVANTAGE OF THE SERVICE...CAN'T BEAT $39 A MONTH & IT ISN'T EVEN AUTOMATICALLY WITHDRAWN FROM YOUR ACCOUNT!!!

STILL WAITING ON THE FIRST SHOE PICKS FOR ME SO I'LL KEEP THE BLOG WORLD POSTED....IF ME LIKEY YOU'LL KNOW!!!

TOTALLY OFF TOPIC: BUT I HOPE THE RECONCILIATION BETWEEN KIM & REGGIE IS SUCCESSFUL....AWWW, LOVE!!!!

THIS IS IT....MJ'S FINAL ACT!!!

I am sooo happy to have my tickets to the the screening of Michael Jackson's THIS IS IT, I CAN'T CONTAIN MYSELF!!! I always wanted to see the MEGAstar in concert one day but sadly I NEVER WILL, live anyway. However in rememberance of the icon I am going to be as stylish as possible in my MJ get up come October 31st to see THIS IS IT!!!! This Is It will feature MJ participating in hours of rehearsal for what was to be his final tour the THIS IS IT tour. As well as know Michael never made it to that tour and the concert promoters are giving us, the fans, a final chance to enjoy the King of Entertainment's performance skills and talent!!!

This Is It.....is it an honest gesture for the fans? or simply another attempt for others to nickle and dime the King of Pop even in his death???

Kardashian-Odom Wedding details!!!!

I have mentioned before how among the celebrities that I keep up with are the Kardashian Dolls...My fave KK Doll has found love and wasted NO time tying the knot with Los Angeles Laker "star" Lamar Odom (hence the word star in quotation marks as I am an avid NBA game watcher and think he's anything but a star but I digress, that's not the point of this post). Just like everyone else i'm thinking WHY ON EARTH IS THERE IS SUCH A RUSH TO GET MARRIED, but it's their love life, their perrogative....let's be happy for them, happy for Khloe who is obviously the sister with the most guts to be herself but, however, seems to have the worst luck with men although this is debateable seeing as though Kim isn't much of a winner in the love department and besides being preggers with Scotts bundle, Kourtney isn't either.

I myself am happy for the young, in love, and famous couple, ESPECIALLY Khloe!!! While everyone else has been caught up in the whirlwind of the Kardashians with Kim's hair being blonde, breaking up with Football boyfriend Reggie Bush, Kourtney's being preggers....I have been disgusted with dialogue of many that constantly compare Khloe to her older sisters, IT'S NOT FAIR!!! Khloe gets the last laugh though by obvioulsy finding great love (or what I hope is great love) and GETTING' A RING ON IT....WHICH NEITHER KOURTNEY NOR KIM has managed to do. ABOVE is a picture of the wedding invite and link to eonline where more details of the Kardashian0-Odom wedding can be found!!!!! YAAAAY KHLOE!!!!

http://perezhilton.com/2009-09-28-all-the-kardashian-wedding-deets (THE JUICE)

VIVA ME GLAM...SHOPPING SPREE!!!!!

I'm thinking colorful, BOLD, glamorous colors!!!!! So today I am going to go on a shopping spree for make up and all things GLAM!!! Mascara, eyeliner, StudioStick (My on again/off again drug), Lipglass & eyeshadows galore!! It's Fall so it's time to update the closets and makeup bags with bold new colors to compliment the season.

Items to Get:

New Trench

Brown Boots

Fall tights

Makeup!!!!!!!

African American White Collar Adonis

So when talking to my girlfriends, we almost always get on the subject of men....we're women!! Such a discussion always come around to the type of man desired by each of us and sadly, that type is almost nonexistent THE AFRICAN AMERICAN WHITE COLLAR ADONIS!!!! Where is he? I do loads of active observing, active listening and as I commute to work everyday, interract with my coworkers, travel out of the office to lunch, reflect on the demographics of my college classes, I realize that he may be more of a mythical creature than we think. One can call it what they want (Golddigger, Groupie, etc) but I know what I want, am not trying to compromise, and see nothing wrong with my chikas because they prefer a man with power, respect, intellect, influence, success, and maybe even an advanced degree or two. The numbers of professional/advanced degree holding African American women are ever increasing, but they aren't so much in regards to our African American male counterparts.....Their presence in the office is almost usually one of the blue collar service worker, support employee. Not too many of then in comprising the leadership roles in entrepreneurship, "Executive-ship", management. While I am in no way presenting an argument that there are NO African American men in the workplace in these higher positions, I am simply stating the facts....Sisters are climbing the ladder and brothers aren't leading, climbing beside us!!! Whats up with that??!!!!

I LOVE my black males; would prefer to settle down with one, build a family/life with one but I would be out of mind & oblivious to think that the odds are in my favor. They simply aren't!!! Let's start with the number one statistic. African Americans comprise roughly between 13-15% of the U.S populations with that number (whatever the exact number is) being more of a stable percentage (staying the same). Women already out number men as the givers of life. Furthermore, any college student can do a observation of his/her campus or another's campus and develop the accurate conclusion that African American males do not enter and graduate college at the same rates as African American women (try it & I promise thats the conclusion). With those factors taken into mind the number of eligible, marriagable, college educated (not even counting those that get to or have obtained an advanced/professional degree) men has just dwindled. Now take into the account sexuality (homosexuality is more prevalent than ever before), incarceration rates, the number that have a child from a previous relationship. The conclusion is simple and research back me up!!! African American women will undoubtly face choices in the dating/marriage pool that other woment DO NOT & LIKELY WILL NOT face.

Those choices are: (1.) To marry down to a man that doesn't have as much education as she, isn't as successful as she (career wise). (2.) To marry outside of her race, which isn't impossible but the reality is that Black women have not/are not at the top of the list for men of other races due to factors not their own fault such as media portrayals, stereotypes, etc. (3.) Some women will ultimately share a man by being the mistress, other woman so to speak. (4.) Some will NOT wed at all. I'm sure the list could be a little more extensive but those are just a few things that are up against the educated, goal oriented, marriage/family seeking Black woman that is seeking to marry an equally or more educated, successful, eligible Black man.

All the above factors are and should be taken into account HOWEVER we mustn't forget the doctrine of the "forbidden fruit." Some Black men will look outside their race for a mate despite the number of eligible, marriageable, intelligent, attractive Black women. Historically, this has been for a number of reasons such as other women are more submissive, white women and the forbidden fruit doctrine, and the exotic/different appeal of women of other races. All those facts mean simply one thing!!! Women of other races can and have to choose from ALL men while the same isn't necessarily true for African American women. Discouraging much, I know!!!

However, my prayer is that love will strike all...matrimony is a wonderful union!!! May all who wish to experienc it do so. Prayfully demographics are changing!!!!

I recommend Hill Harper's new book "The Conversation..."

Prim, Proper, Pretty in PINK...A SASSY NIGHT OUT!!!

So, I have officially sent out the invitations or Evite rather for my 22nd bday Girls Night Out!!!!!!! I cannot wait! The ladies that are attending are in for a real, sassy, girly, funtabulous treat and it helps that they are excited too! I mean I don't mean to toot my own horn and pat my own back but when I plan something, it's anything but a shin-dig....It's a GRAND event!!! With all that is coming, my bday celebration is what I can't wait for; Pole party, pamper party, champagne the BEST (Armand de Brignac Rose` & Moet Rose`), my favorite foods and dessert and my birthday cake, although I have yet to select a bakery, will be the eye catcher of the evening aside from ME the birthday girl!!!! It will be an evening of pure, feminine, divaliciousness and FUN with music only from the hottest girl groups and female acts of all time. Best of all besides my wonderful self & cake will be the fully stocked bar only with rose champage and wine though, NO Vodka here!! The ladies will all be decked out in my favorite color, uh huh PINK!!!!!! I have never seen a birthday as fab as mine and I truly can't wait....My girls are in for some surprises as well....The gift bags will be filled with treats that are anything but cheap!!!!! They'll love it, I already do love it and December cannot get here fast enough!!!!

THE ONLY WAY TO DO IT IS PRIM,PROPER & IN PINK OF COURSE!!!!!