Friday, June 4, 2010

When it's over...


between you and an ex, do you mind if your ex still keep in touch with your family/friends??? Do you expect your ex to breakup with your entire personal environment (your hangouts, family, friends) when you breakup with them?? What boundaries or aspects of your life, do you mind your ex lover to not cross or show face in after your flame has died out???

My two co-workers and I often chat about specific situations in which you or someone you're close with interacts with your old flame and whether it's boundary crossing or not, and our opinions are very varied so I wanted to get my readers opinions on this....

Is it cool??? or when it's over is everything that came with you, over for them too????

3 comments:

Chay Chay said...

I can TOTALLY relate to this situation...I'm still friends with my ex's mom, I mean she loves me and all, and my ex and I are still friends...but he ALWAYS wants to know what we talk about....SORRY boo, LOL!

Jusmisskiss said...

My 1st instinct was to say "Im gonna part ways with you and your family", but then I recanted that because its different when children are involved. I would remain cordial for my childs sake with the paternal family. Hello and Goodbye.. No cookouts!!

Lipglass and Handbags said...

LOL!!! I definitely understand when the kiddies are involved!! A good parent would always make sure things are comfy for the babies!!